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The Four Traits Of Impactful Self-Leaders

Self-leadership is having the ability and determination to influence yourself by habitually taking micro-steps and steering your life in a way that is right for you. It is not about sitting back and letting someone else shape how you are to evolve or where you are to end up. Positive outcomes will occur once you sit in the driver’s seat of your life and draw on your confidence, motivation and capability to take the necessary actions to create change.

Traits of Self-Leaders

Since publishing my book about courage, resilience and self-leadership, I’m often asked what it means to be an impactful self-leader? Well I can tell you that they share the following 4 traits:

  1. S-ervice
  2. E-xample
  3. L-isten
  4. F-allible

1. S-ervice

Firstly, self-leaders are always in Service. They are continually looking for ways to assist and empower others to live their best lives. They genuinely go out of their way to elevate everyone around them, without worrying about what it does for their own progression. Getting recognition for this is not a concern because watching the people in their team, their family, their community, their school or their workplace being able to rise up and shine is enough fulfilment.

Action Items:

  • Be a Mentor – look for both formal and informal opportunities to support, mentor and coach others in your workplace.
  • Give Praise – whenever you can, publicly acknowledge when someone on your team has done a great job.
  • Lend a Hand – offer to help a colleague with a project because you know your experience and skill will make a difference and get it done quicker.

 2. E-xample

The second trait that self-leaders share is that they lead by example. They are excellent role models because they walk their talk and because of this their colleagues willingly walk with them. As we know actions speak much louder than words and the self-leaders of our world do this with ease.      Click to tweet

Action Items:

  • Take Care of Yourself – by including movement, nourishing food and rejuvenation time in your day, not only will it improve your leadership capability, but it will also inspire others to do the same.
  • Be Mindful of Your Words – be careful what you say and who you say it to. Always show support and encouragement in public and give extra guidance and recommendations in private.
  • Do Unto Others – treat people the way you would like to be treated.

3. L-isten

Thirdly, self-leaders are great listeners. In this busy, noisy, over-connected world that we live in, self-leaders have mastered the art of being present and really listening to the challenges, concerns, stories and successes of their colleagues and their customers. They understand that ‘being heard’ is what most of us are wanting in our lives.

Action Items:

  • Be Present – do not try and multi-task while listening to someone. Give them your respect with 100% of your attention, as this is the only way you will be able to extract what is really being said.
  • Ask Questions – show that you have paid attention by asking thoughtful, relevant questions.
  • Summarise – always end the conversation by summarising what you have heard to ensure that the correct information has transpired.

4. F-allible

Last but not least, self-leaders are fallible. They do not believe nor try to make out that they have all the answers because they know they make mistakes. They surround themselves with people who use their brain power and who keep their eyes and ears open so they can collectively make smart decisions about new ideas and business opportunities, as well as ways to mitigate risk.

Action Items:

If you reflect on your own self-leadership traits, how would you rank yourself with these 4?

Yours Courageously,

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